Why the same employee frustrations keep showing up, and what they might be telling you about your growing business.
Have you ever found yourself wondering why nobody on your team seems to be listening?
One employee misses a deadline. Someone else doesn’t follow through on a commitment. Two people aren’t communicating, and now you’re dealing with a conflict that probably could have been avoided.
And somehow, every one of these situations ends up back on your desk.
Again.
You’re frustrated because you’ve hired capable people. You trust them. You know they care about the business.
So why does it feel like you’re constantly cleaning up after everyone?
Here’s something I want you to consider.
What if you’re not dealing with a whole bunch of separate employee problems?
What if there’s a pattern underneath all those frustrations that you haven’t noticed yet?
Because when the same issues keep showing up with different people, I think it’s time to stop looking exclusively at the individuals and start examining how the team actually works.
The Same Problem, Different People
I’ve been working with a founder I’ll call Judy for several months.
Her business is growing quickly, and she’s built a talented, dedicated team. But over the course of our coaching conversations, she kept bringing me different frustrations.
One week, someone hadn’t followed instructions the way she’d expected. Another week, a client deliverable was late. Then there was tension between team members because responsibilities weren’t clear.
Each situation seemed like a separate issue.
Until one day, I stopped her.
“Judy, we’ve talked about this kind of problem several times now. Are you noticing a pattern?”
She was genuinely surprised.
From her perspective, she’d been dealing with different employees, different projects and different problems.
But when we looked back over the previous few months, something became clear.
The names were changing, but the frustrations were remarkably similar.
People weren’t communicating effectively. Work was being duplicated or missed. Responsibilities were overlapping, and Judy was constantly being pulled in to sort things out.
And here’s what made the situation particularly interesting.
Her employees weren’t avoiding responsibility. They were actually trying really hard to take it.
They saw work that needed doing, so they jumped in. They wanted to help their colleagues, support clients and keep projects moving.
Except they didn’t always know who owned what.
Sometimes two people were working on the same thing. Sometimes someone stepped into a project without knowing another person had already made a decision. Other times, important information wasn’t getting to the right people.
The team was frustrated and overwhelmed.
And so was Judy.
Everyone was working hard, but the way the work was organized hadn’t kept pace with the growth of the business.
Suddenly, we weren’t talking about five different employee problems.
We were talking about one much bigger leadership and people strategy challenge.
Clarity Has to Come Before Accountability
I talk about accountability a lot because it’s essential to building a high-performing team.
But there’s something that has to happen first.
You cannot reasonably hold someone accountable for expectations they don’t understand.
And I’m not just talking about whether you’ve told someone what to do.
I’m talking about whether they understand what they’re responsible for, which decisions they’re empowered to make, how their work connects to other people and what success actually looks like.
Because saying, “I need you to take ownership of this project,” sounds pretty clear.
Until you discover that you and your employee have completely different definitions of ownership.
Does that mean managing the entire project? Making all the decisions? Keeping everyone informed? Escalating problems? Or simply making sure the assigned tasks get completed?
If you haven’t established those expectations, it’s entirely possible for two well-intentioned people to walk away from the same conversation believing they’ve agreed to different things.
That’s where we started with Judy.
We clarified roles and responsibilities, looked at how work was being assigned and made sure people understood what they owned.
We also examined communication.
Because communication isn’t just an individual skill. It’s a system.
Your team needs shared expectations about where information lives, how decisions get communicated, who needs to be involved and when something needs to be escalated.
Otherwise, telling everyone to “communicate better” is about as useful as telling them to “just be more organized.”
We introduced a purposeful weekly team meeting, clarified communication channels and created opportunities for people to raise issues before they became bigger problems.
Judy also began having regular one-on-one conversations with her team.
Not simply to check whether tasks were complete, but to understand where people were getting stuck, what support they needed and what might be preventing them from doing their best work.
And within a few weeks, things started to change.
People had a clearer understanding of their responsibilities. They were communicating more effectively and supporting one another without constantly stepping on each other’s toes.
Judy was also feeling more connected to her team.
Instead of only hearing about problems when something went wrong, she had a better understanding of what was happening across the business.
And she could lead more intentionally because she wasn’t spending all her time putting out fires.
Your Team Doesn’t Need a Better Firefighter
Here’s what I love about Judy’s experience.
She didn’t solve these problems by becoming more controlling.
She didn’t start checking everyone’s work three times a day or insist on being copied on every email.
She created the clarity, structure and communication her team needed to take greater ownership of their work.
And that’s a very different kind of leadership.
Now, I want to be clear that not every missed deadline or frustrating employee situation is evidence of a bigger organizational problem.
Sometimes someone genuinely isn’t performing, and you need to address that directly.
But when you’re seeing the same issues across several capable, dedicated employees, I think it’s worth asking whether the problem is really with the people or with the environment they’re working in.
Because the way you organized work when you had three employees might not be effective when you have eight, twelve or fifteen.
Your business has changed.
Has your people strategy changed with it?
Sometimes the most valuable thing you can do as a founder is get out of the day-to-day activity long enough to take that 50,000-foot view.
To stop responding to each individual frustration and start looking at what those frustrations might be telling you about the business as a whole.
That’s what Judy did.
And it changed how she led her team.
So if you’re feeling like you’re having the same conversations with different employees over and over again, I want you to ask yourself one question.
Am I trying to fix the people, or have I actually figured out what’s creating the problem?
Because your people strategy is your growth strategy.
Want to Explore This Further?
In Episode 18, I share more about Judy’s experience, the patterns we uncovered and the changes that helped her team work more effectively together.
Tired of Solving the Same Team Problems?
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